For some people, the process of dating can present extreme contrasts. They may either be extremely resistant or quickly become infatuated. If there is a slight initial liking, they immediately start imagining the future, overcommit emotionally, actively give and overcare about the other person’s attitude. Eventually, they are likely to be treated coldly and get trapped in emotional turmoil and depression.
This kind of rapid emotional arousal is usually not true love, but rather a psychological compensation for emotional void. Those who have been single for a long time and yearn for a stable marital relationship, have an extremely strong need for love. Once they encounter a compatible stranger, they will quickly enhance their feelings, overly praise the other person, and experience a false infatuation.
If one invests too much effort in the early stage of a blind date, they will put themselves in a passive position and become overly sensitive and prone to anxiety. They might break down emotionally at the slightest sign of indifference from the other party. At the same time, blindly praising the other person will also lead to overlooking their personality flaws and moral issues, making it easy to choose the wrong partner for marriage or romance.
When choosing a partner through dating, one needs to be patient and rational, and refrain from the impulsive mindset of falling in love too quickly. In the early stages, maintain a relaxed interaction pace, gradually get to know each other, understand the true character and values of the other person, and then gradually invest emotions. Only in this way can one avoid getting hurt and achieve a stable and reliable romantic relationship.
